@deadsuperhero this interview with Melissa Broder is something http://otherppl.com/melissa-broder-interview-3/ she's definitely in touch with some part of herself that I'm not.
And this interview with Lynne Tillman http://otherppl.com/lynne-tillman-interview/ I don't know how to explain it but she seems so connected to reality and herself and so comfortable the limits of her powers.
I hope this helps.